A visit to southern Florida

Florida is not my number one destination but I was there the first week of January for my mother’s burial.  She died in December and my sister, our sister-in-law and I traveled to Hollywood, FL to bury her beside her husband of 21 years(my stepfather).  The weather was not the best due to the “bomb cyclone” that was heading up the east coast. But it was still better than remaining in the frozen tundra where we were experiencing a deep freeze with temps below zero.  It was nice to get a break from that!  It was raining the day we got there and the day of the graveside burial it was very windy.  We were grateful that the funeral home offered to us to have our service inside.  Mom was 94 and had dementia for many years, I think it started in 2010.  She had a great fall the day before Thanksgiving and never recovered. While I am sad that she’s gone, I am grateful that she is no longer in pain. We’re having a memorial for her in Clifton, VA where my mother lived with my sister for the past nearly 3 years.  I will be writing something to say for the memorial and I’ll post that here when it’s done.

I decided to extend my trip to southern Florida to visit with my good friend Bev, who I have known since 10th grade. She lives in Boca Raton. We met in band, we both play the flute and by 12th grade we shared first chair because our director couldn’t decide who was better. We have kept in touch and have had a few chances to see each other over the years.  The last time was when she and her older daughter came to St. Paul to see a play.  We met them for dinner one night just over five years ago.  I needed a break from the frozen tundra and lucky for me Bev was in town!

Bev and I have many things in common, one of which is that we’re both very organized.  Before I arrived she had given me ideas of things to do while I was there but I had no idea she was going to create an agenda for us.  When she showed me to my room, there on the bed was our agenda with a big “Welcome to Florida!” on top.  It was so cute! And she did say we didn’t have to do everything as planned.  She made me breakfast every day and she had picked out a few places of interest for us to visit and all were loosely scheduled.  I switched two of them because of the weather and it all worked out great!  We had so much fun visiting the Gumbo Limbo Nature Center, Fairchild Tropical Botanic Garden and Morikami Museum and Japanese Gardens.  We went shopping in Del Rey Beach and had a nice lunch too. I of course took photos so I hope you will enjoy a photo display of these three great places to visit in southern Florida.

We went to Gumbo Limbo Nature Center first and it was a chilly day so we didn’t see everything there.  We looked at and admired the beautiful fish in their outdoor tanks, peeked into the research area and checked out their gift shop.  It’s too bad it was too chilly or we’d have taken a walk on their boardwalk and checked out the many varieties of plants and animals. I did enjoy the fish tanks and Bev was particularly fond of the parrotfish whose excrement supplies a large percentage of the sand on the beaches of southern Florida. Bev brings everyone who visits her to Gumbo Limbo and she knows so much about it that I suggested she volunteer there. It seems like a win/win to me.

The next day we visited Fairchild Tropical Botanic Garden. This was the one place I absolutely had to see.  As most people know, I love flowers and the chance to visit a tropical botanic garden while I was in southern Florida was a chance I did not want to miss. It was my favorite of the three places we visited.  I enjoyed all three places for different reasons.  I loved learning about the turtle rehabilitation and research going on at Gumbo Limbo.  And visiting it with Bev, I learned so much that I never knew! But it doesn’t compare to Fairchild.  Wow! It’s near Miami so it was at least an hour from Boca Raton and you get to drive through some gorgeous neighborhoods.  More wow.  And this was our best weather day so that really helped for just a fabulous day. You have to take the tram tour.  It’s so interesting and you learn about all the plants and what goes on in all the buildings as well as some history about the place.  The tram driver and tour guide stopped along the way for photo ops.  After the tram tour we walked around, ate lunch and visited the butterflies. The first gallery are some photos from the tram tour and others that I took when we were walking around.

The next gallery consists of the butterfly building.  So many beautiful and delicate butterflies.  At certain times of the day they will place a butterfly on you so Bev did that and while I was taking a photo of her with her butterfly one landed on me!  They tell you to watch where you step as they land on the ground as well.  We did see a few on the ground.

Next are some photos of the art exhibit, The Art of Balance.  These were all up in the air throughout the gardens. They’re all part of a temporary exhibit and they were  so interesting!  I tried posing as one of them and you’ll see the photo that Bev took of me in the next gallery.

My last gallery from Fairchild consists of the handful of Chihuly sculptures that are there.  They are all so beautiful.

On the day that I was scheduled to go home Bev took me to Morikami Museum and Japanese Gardens.  My flight was departing in the late afternoon so we had time for another tourist stop.  Another fascinating place! We got there when it opened and it was so quiet and peaceful.  We headed out to tour the gardens on foot.  There are rock gardens, bamboo gardens and I especially enjoyed the bonsai display. There is a museum about how the Japanese came to southern Florida and how the gardens were formed. They recreated a typical Japanese house complete with food containers in Japanese and an example of a grade school class.  We saw a bird that was a cross between an egret and a peacock that was swimming in the water as well as an alligator.  Towards the end we saw coy and other fish and one turtle in another body of water.  We enjoyed a lunch of salmon and rice and visited their gift shop.  You have to visit the gift shops.  So many beautiful and interesting things to buy!

I am not a huge fan of Florida mostly because of things that I dealt with while my mother still lived there.  And it occurred to me after this trip that I never really spent time visiting any sights.  My sister and I (and occasionally our brother) would fly into Ft. Lauderdale and head to Mom’s place in Pembroke Pines. We were there to visit Mom, which was always fun.  So it was nice to see some of the wonderful things southern Florida has to offer.  I’m still not a big fan.  Too many strip malls and it’s way too crowded for my taste.  But, if you’re visiting southern Florida, I highly recommend any of these three fabulous places.

I’ll close with a couple of photos from the plane. The coast of Florida and Chicago at night.  Enjoy!!



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Weekly photo challenge – Beloved

I couldn’t help but think of my mother when I saw this week’s theme.  She just died in December and she was so beloved by so many.  In honor of Goldie Leiderman Nadler Katz, April 30, 1923 – December 15, 2017.

Mom n me at Mt. Vernon, 1988


At 15 with her father, 1938

Izzy and Goldie, 1940s


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My 2017 in photos

Here we are on New Year’s Eve taking stock of the year. My year included a couple of trips, one to Chicago in March another to northern Virginia to see my mother, my sister and extended family over Labor Day Weekend. I hadn’t seen my mother in over a year and a half so I wanted to see her again. That turned out to be the last time that I saw her alive as she passed away December 15 after a nasty fall. She basically did not recover from the fall that broke her nose and left her in a lot of pain. I am sad that she is gone but thankful that I had her for as long as I did and I’m thankful she is no longer in pain. Included at the end of this gallery are a collection of photos of my mother. She was the best mom a girl could have. I love you Mom. Until we meet again. Godspeed.

I plan to write more about my mother at a later time. For now, here’s a photographic summary of my year. Happy new year everyone.

A separate gallery for photos of my mother:


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Autumn scenes from the frozen tundra

But we’re not frozen yet!!  It’s been a beautiful autumn with wonderful oranges, yellows and reds everywhere you look as well as unseasonably warm days, into the 70s the last part of October.  It’s been great!!  You can probably guess that I’ve been photographing these beautiful colors and I’d like to share some with you.  I hope you enjoy.


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Minnesota State Fair 2017

Woo hoo! It’s time for my annual post about the Minnesota State Fair!

We always go to the fair opening day and it seems every year it feels more crowded.  I checked out the fair’s website and found some interesting numbers.  I wasn’t imagining it. Each year on opening day for the last two years the attendance increased.  Between 2017 and 2016 it was almost 6,000 higher!  There were three record-breaking attendance days this year, the most record breaking days in three years.  Plus, this year’s total attendance is the highest ever, another record broken.  So, yes, there were lots more people at the fair this year.

No matter, we still enjoy it and this year was no different. I went twice.  Opening day was fun but by 1:00 it was getting too crowded so we called it quits early.  For my second visit, I met hubby there one late afternoon from work the following week. I park my car like I’m going to work and walk on over to the fair.   Very easy!

On opening day we headed over to Minnesota Public Radio after breakfast and were treated with a handshake from our governor!  He went one by one in the small crowd and shook each of our hands. He commented how brave Miss M was for wearing short sleeves as it was in the upper 50s at that moment.  So that was fun!  We also saw Al Franken posing for photos with a constituent.

The agriculture building is a must for me for each visit.  Some of the exhibits change every other day so it’s worth it to see other types of flowers when you can.   First some crop art:

In the next gallery is a little bit of everything else that I saw in the ag building:

And then some other scenes at the fair:

I hope you’ve enjoyed this year’s tour of the Minnesota State Fair.  I’ll be back soon with a few more travel adventures. I hope you’ll come along!





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On one side there were Nazis and on the other side there were no Nazis and Trump still came down on the wrong side. #charlottesville

Thank you Helen! She is spot on and this one’s too good not to share.

Margaret and Helen

helen-mug1From Helen:

Margaret, several people have asked me why I haven’t been writing. The truth is, honey, this isn’t funny anymore. Our President… scratch that… the moron currently occupying the White House just equated George Washington to Robert E. Lee. He can’t understand why a memorial to the symbolic founding father of our country is different than a memorial to a general in an army that fought a failed rebellion against our government.

Mr. President, with no respect intended, I implore you to please step down. You are not qualified for the position you now hold. Quite frankly, you are not qualified to be much more than a reality TV star, a position I hold in very low regard by the way.

There is a reason that in Germany you will find no statues of Hitler, no monuments to the Third Reich, and noChancellor of Germany suggesting there was blame…

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Water lilies at Como Park

Every summer about the end of July, beginning of August there blooms these exotic water lilies in ponds near the conservatory at Como Park.  I don’t always remember to go look at them but something on my phone reminded me that the last time I photographed them was 8/1/15.  In fact, I created a post about that visit. Do check it out, I think you’ll like it.

I had been thinking about these gorgeous flowers but didn’t take the next step to go look at the dates on the photos to remember when they bloom.  Instead I was reminded via current technology.  Smart phones are great tools!!

And so I give you this year’s version of the dazzling beauties that are the water lilies at Como Park in St. Paul Minnesota.  I hope you enjoy!

One last one full size on its own. I’m so glad I got to see them this year!


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